My Book Shelf

"The right words can be the first brick in a new foundation."Reading has always been a way for me to explore the "vast array of beliefs" I mentioned earlier. These are the books that shaped my perspective and the ones I wrote or contributed to, that can help others find their own way.My Work:Humanism from the Heart: Building Bridges Beyond Belief
In this book, I share my personal journey of navigating life as a freethinker in a world of faith. It’s a guide for anyone looking to reclaim the language of connection, empathy, and meaning without needing to rely on the supernatural. It’s my invitation to you to see how warm a rational life can truly be.Humanism: Canadian Perspectives
I am proud to be a contributor to this landmark collection—the first of its kind in Canada. This book brings together a diverse array of voices from across the country to explore what it means to live a rational, ethical life in a specifically Canadian context. It is a reflection of my belief that while we each have our own story, we are part of a much larger, shared conversation. Published as a dual-language edition in both English and French, this book serves as a bridge between cultures, ensuring that the dialogue on reason and compassion reaches every corner of our country.Others coming soon…

Recovering from Religion:
A Safety Net for the Journey

"Questioning your foundation shouldn't mean losing your community."If you find yourself at a crossroads where your old beliefs no longer fit, or if you’re navigating the space between what you were taught and what you now know to be true, please know that you don't have to walk that path alone.As an Ambassador for Recovering from Religion, I’m committed to providing a soft landing for those in transition. We offer a place where your questions are respected, your doubts are valid, and your humanity comes first. Whether you need a listening ear, a supportive community, or resources to help you find your footing again, we are here for you.How We Can Help:• Peer Support: Connect with others who have been where you are.• Professional Resources: Access to secular therapists and support networks.• A Space to Talk: No judgment, just honest conversation.

• Recovering from Religion

• Secular Therapy Project

Humanist Canada:
My National Community

"Living a life of purpose, grounded in our shared humanity."I’ve always believed that being a Humanist is about more than just what we don't believe; it’s about the values we actively champion. As an Ambassador for Humanist Canada, I am proud to be part of a national voice that promotes reason, compassion, and a commitment to building a more ethical and sustainable world.For me, this organization is a vital part of the "bridge" I talk about. It’s where we turn philosophy into action—advocating for secular rights, supporting science-based education, and providing a sense of belonging for those who find their wonder in the natural world.Why I Support Humanist Canada:• Meaning Without Superstition: We provide the resources to navigate life's big questions through a rational lens.• Secular Ceremonies: As an Officiant, I work alongside Humanist Canada to ensure every Canadian has access to meaningful milestones that reflect their true values.• National Impact: From human rights to climate action, we are building a foundation for a better future, together.

• Humanist Canada

• Windsor Chapter

Street Epistemology International

"Changing the way we talk about the things that matter most."Have you ever wondered how to have a productive conversation with someone who holds a completely different worldview? Street Epistemology (SE) is a conversational toolset designed to help people reflect on the reliability of the methods they use to arrive at their conclusions.Instead of debating "what" people believe, SE focuses on "how" they believe it. It is a practice rooted in deep listening, intellectual humility, and genuine curiosity—turning a potential argument into a shared exploration of truth.Why I Recommend This Resource:• A Bridge, Not a Battle: SE provides a way to engage with others without the friction of traditional debate.• Anthony Magnabosco: As a founder and leading practitioner, Anthony’s work has pioneered a world where we can disagree with dignity and stay focused on the evidence.• Navigating Beliefs: Street Epistemology International (SEI) provides the training and resources to help anyone become a more effective, empathetic communicator."The goal isn't to win an argument; it’s to help someone (and yourself) find a better path to the truth."

• Street Epistemology

• SE International

• Navigating Beliefs

Contact Me

"Every bridge starts with a single conversation."Whether you have a question about my books, you're looking for an officiant to help you mark a significant milestone, you’d like to schedule me to speak at an event, or you just want to share a perspective, I’d love to hear from you.I’m always open to new information, new stories, and new ways to build a stronger community together. Feel free to reach out using the form below, and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can.

• Heart

My Story

I was raised as a freethinker, which gave me the incredible gift of a blank canvas. Growing up, I wasn't told what to think, but I was taught how to think—with curiosity, integrity, and an open mind. This upbringing instilled in me a lifelong fascination with how humans find meaning and how we choose to treat one another when the traditional scripts are set aside.Over the years, my curiosity led me to explore a vast array of perspectives, including a meaningful period spent in church with my Christian spouse and her family.These experiences didn't pull me away from my rational roots; instead, they deepened my understanding of the human need for community and connection. I realized that while our beliefs about the unknown may differ, our need for a "solid foundation" of empathy and support is universal.Today, my work is a reflection of that journey. Whether I am speaking about Humanism from the Heart, officiating a wedding, or serving as an Ambassador for organizations like Humanist Canada and Recovering from Religion, my goal is the same: to show that a life of reason is a life of profound warmth.I’m proud to have been recognized with the King Charles III Coronation Medal for this service, but my greatest reward is simply helping people build their own bridges to a more connected, compassionate life.

• The Bridge-Builder’s Creed

Awards & Achievements

"Building bridges is a journey, and I’m honoured to walk this path with you."I believe that our greatest achievements aren’t measured by what we gather, but by how we serve.My work as an author, officiant, and advocate is driven by a simple goal: to help create a more compassionate world where everyone feels they belong.I am deeply humbled by the recognition my work has received. To me, these honours are a testament to a growing community of people who value reason, heart, and the power of human connection.Notable Recognitions:• Author Shouts | Top Pick: A distinction awarded to Humanism from the Heart for excellence in storytelling and impact.• American Writing Awards | Finalist for Social Change: Recognized for writing that challenges the status quo and advocates for a more empathetic, connected society.• King Charles III Coronation Medal: Awarded for significant service to Canada and my community, reflecting a commitment to the values that strengthen our national fabric."Recognition is simply an invitation to do more, listen better, and build stronger bridges."

Many Meaningful Moments

"The meaning of the moment comes from the stories we tell and the people we love."As a Humanist Officiant, my job is to work with you to ensure your ceremony is exactly as you envision it. I believe that life’s most profound milestones are defined by our shared humanity and the honest connections we make.Whether we are celebrating a beginning or honouring a legacy, I am committed to creating a space where everyone feels welcome, focusing on the values and memories that bind us together.Let’s find the perfect way to celebrate your big day, mark a special occasion, or honour a loved one who is no longer here.I’d love to get to know you and discover the finer details that will make your celebration unique and original.• Weddings & Unions: A celebration of your partnership and the life you are building together.• Funerals & Memorials: Honouring a life lived with honesty and dignity, focusing on the legacy left behind.• Life Milestones: From naming ceremonies to significant anniversaries, marking the transitions that matter most to you.My area of coverage spans the whole of Windsor and Essex County. I’m proud to serve this community and to help my neighbours navigate life's most important chapters."We’re in this together. Let’s create something beautiful."

• Humanist Canada Profile

• Request a quote

• Photo Gallery

Upcoming Events

Past Events

You found it. You’re a seeker, and I’ve always believed that the world is built by people who aren't afraid to look a little deeper.In a world that often feels like it's pulling apart, it takes a special kind of courage to be the one who listens. My hope for this space—and for my work—is that it serves as a reminder: we don't have to agree on everything to treat each other with dignity. The strongest foundations aren't built on being right; they are built on being real.Do me a small favour today? Take five minutes to truly listen to someone you usually disagree with. Don’t listen to respond, and don’t listen to win. Just listen to understand the human being on the other side. That simple, quiet act is how the first stone of a bridge is laid.I’m so glad you’re here on this journey with me. Keep seeking, keep questioning, and above all, keep your heart open.— Steve

The Bridge-Builder’s Creed

In a world of increasing noise and division, I choose a different path. This creed guides my writing, my speaking, and my daily interactions:• I speak to the human, not the system. My goal is to reach the person across from me, knowing that kindness is the only key that fits the lock of a closed mind.• I am a safe harbour. I choose to be the calm, rational, and warm voice that people remember when they finally decide to look for a way out of conflict.• I measure success by integrity, not volume. A single meaningful connection is worth more than a thousand empty claps. If I stay true to the value of cordiality, I have already succeeded.• I plant seeds for a harvest I may never see. I trust that the bridges I build today, even the ones built in the face of misunderstanding, will be walked upon by others tomorrow.

“Sharing from the Heart” Contest

We’ve all had those moments, sitting across from someone and realizing… we don’t see the world the same way.In 200 words, share a conversation you had with someone you disagreed with. Did you try to understand each other? Were you able to find any common ground?Sometimes, the most meaningful connections come from simply choosing to listen.Entries can be submitted from Mar 23 - Apr 23 2026.One winner will be selected at random and will receive two copies of Humanism from the Heart… one for you, and one for a friend.No purchase necessary.Please include the answer to this skill-testing question:
(12 × 3) + 8 − 10 = ?